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Advice Please (Bret's Weddings)

I need some advice from my friends.  Far and near.  Young and old.  I don’t care.  I just appreciate your input.  For many years I have been a Pastor and have a close relationship with a lot of people.  For a long time I was a youth Pastor and a Pastor of a church that had many young people.  As is customary (ha), these young people grow up, fall in love and want to get married.  When that time comes I sometimes get a phone call saying (almost always similar):  “Pastor Bret, we are getting married!! And we would LOVE you to perform our wedding ceremony.”  I almost always say the same thing: “Wow!  Congratulations.  I am so excited for you.  Let me check with my schedule, my wife and get back to you.  But I am honored you would consider me to lead out on such an important day.”   Most of the time I am able to accommodate people in their wedding plans as they are working months, if not a year ahead of time.   Here’s where I need advice.  Oftentimes the couple will ask me:  “So, what